Okay, so I saw this “crossword massage” thing trending and thought, why not give it a shot? Sounds kinda weird, but hey, I’m always up for trying new things, especially if it might help with my eternally tense shoulders.

Getting Started
First, I googled around a bit to figure out exactly what this was. Turns out, it’s basically getting someone to trace letters and words onto your back, like a human crossword puzzle. Seems simple enough, right?
The First Attempt (Fail)
I roped my partner into being the “massager”. I laid down on the couch, face down, ready for some relaxation. He started tracing… something. I honestly couldn’t tell what. It just felt like random squiggles.
- Me: “What letter is that?”
- Him: “Uh… I don’t know, a curvy one?”
Yeah, that wasn’t working. We needed a better system.
Finding a System That Works
We decided to keep it simple. I picked some easy words related to relaxation – “calm,” “peace,” “breathe.” I told them to my patner, one at a time. He focused on tracing each letter really clearly, and I tried to guess.
The Actual “Massage”
This time, it was way better! I could actually feel the distinct shapes of the letters. It was surprisingly relaxing. The slow, deliberate tracing was kind of hypnotic. And the guessing part added a little bit of fun, kept my mind engaged just enough.

Here’s how it went:
- He traced a “C”… I guessed it right!
- Then an “A”… easy peasy.
- “L”… “M”… Got the whole word!
The Verdict
Honestly, it’s not a deep tissue massage or anything. But it is a really nice way to unwind. It’s more about the gentle touch and the connection with the other person. And, if I do say, the correct guessing part is quite interesting.
Would I do it again? Definitely. It’s a fun, quirky little thing to try, especially if you’re looking for a different way to relax and connect with someone.