Okay, so I gotta share what I tried the other day. I was staring at this massive to-do list, felt like I was drowning, you know? Just couldn’t figure out where to even begin. Everything felt urgent and huge.

I was procrastinating hard, scrolling through stuff, then remembered this simple approach someone mentioned. Sounded almost too basic, but heck, I was stuck, so why not?
Getting Started – The Mess
First thing, I grabbed a plain old notebook and a pen. That’s it. No fancy apps this time. I looked at the monster project I had to tackle. My brain just kept freezing up looking at the whole thing.
Trying This Grid Thing
So, I drew a simple grid on the paper. Like, maybe four boxes across, four down. Nothing precise, just quick lines. Then, I started breaking down the big, scary tasks into super small bits. And I mean really small.
- Instead of ‘Write report’, I put ‘Open report document’.
- Instead of ‘Plan presentation’, I wrote ‘List 3 main points’.
- ‘Find Jones’s email address’.
- ‘Draft first paragraph of intro’.
You get the idea. Tiny, achievable steps. Each one went into a box on my grid. Filled up maybe 10 or 12 boxes like that.
Then, I just picked one box. Totally random, didn’t matter which one. I told myself, “Okay, just do this one thing.” Set a timer on my phone for like 25 minutes. And I just focused on that single tiny task in the box. No checking emails, no getting coffee (yet), just that one thing.

When the timer went off, I stopped. Didn’t matter if I was totally finished, but usually, these tasks were small enough I was close or done. I put a big ‘X’ through that box on the grid. Felt kinda good, actually.
Took a short break, like 5 minutes. Walked around, got some water. Then I came back, picked another box, set the timer, and went again.
How It Went Down
Honestly, it felt a bit silly at first. Like, ‘Open report document’? Is that even a task? But crossing off that first box gave me a little boost. Then the second. Then the third.
Before I knew it, I’d worked through maybe four or five boxes. That was nearly two hours of focused work, broken up nicely. And looking at the grid, seeing those ‘X’ marks, it actually looked like I’d made progress. The big scary project didn’t feel quite so big anymore.
I didn’t finish everything, not even close. But I broke through that awful ‘stuck’ feeling. I actually started and got some momentum going. That was the whole point, I guess.

It’s nothing revolutionary, right? Just breaking stuff down. But drawing the grid and physically crossing stuff off made a difference for me that day. Helped trick my brain into getting going. Might try it again next time I feel overwhelmed. Simple, but it worked.